We all want to do things well. For example, as students all of us want to have a good performance in study and get good grades. However, growing up also includes accepting when things go wrong. In fact, mistakes can lead to some of the most interesting and meaningful results.
Aiming for good results can help you focus on (关注) your goals, but it’s also important to focus on enjoying the process. Getting too hung up on whether things go as planned can put a lot of pressure on you and lead to worry. That’s why it’s good to leave some room for mistakes and imperfections.
Dr. Rekha Vara is a doctor who helps people with their mental health (心理健康). She says getting things wrong is part of growing up. “We also have to experience the uncomfortable feeling when we get things wrong. This helps us to become stronger,” says Dr. Vara. “Or we’ll be too scared to make mistakes. This fear can lead us to put off doing difficult things or avoid trying new things.”
Learning from your mistakes is necessary during growing up. The most important thing is what you choose to do next. Try not to take it too seriously, blame (责备) yourself or feel too disappointed or upset. Dr. Vara explains, “Remember you’re a common man. Humans make mistakes.” ______, then these feelings will soon pass and then you’ll feel happier.
Instead, thinking about what you might do differently next time helps a lot. In one study, if students were reminded to forgive (宽恕) and be kind to themselves when they failed a test, they felt more encouraged to try again, while other students were less pleased to have a second try.
1.1.What does the underlined part in Paragraph 2 probably mean?
A 执迷
B 懊悔
C 遗憾
D 忽略
解析:选A。词义猜测题。根据划线部分所在句子句意“Getting too hung up on whether things go as planned can put a lot of pressure on you and lead to worry.”句意“太在意事情是否按计划进行会给你带来很大的压力,导致焦虑”可知,划线部分表示“执迷”。故选 A。
2.2.Which of the following would Dr. Vara agree with?
A Fear leads us to try new things.
B Failure is normal in growing up.
C Good results make us stronger.
D People hardly ever get things wrong.
解析:选B。推理判断题。根据第三段的“She says getting things wrong is part of growing up”可知,成长过程中的失败是正常的。故选 B。
3.3.Which of the following can be put in “______” in Paragraph 4?
A Everyone will grow up
B Process is really important
C You should enjoy your feelings
D You might feel uncomfortable at first
解析:选C。推理判断题。根据后文“then these feelings will soon pass and then you’ll feel happier.”可知,此处应提到了“feelings”这个单词,C选项“你应该享受你的感觉”符合。故选C。
4.4.How does the writer support his idea in the last Paragraph?
A By telling stories.
B By giving an example.
C By listing numbers.
D By describing a problem.
解析:选B。推理判断题。根据最后一段的“In one study”可知,最后一段举了一个例子。故选 B。
5.5.What’s the best title for the passage?
A Stick to your goals
B Avoid making mistakes
C Imperfection can be a gift
D Pressure is the key to success
解析:选C。主旨大意题。通读全文可知,本文主要讲述了在成长过程中,犯错是不可避免的,重要的是要从错误中学习,选择下一步应该做什么,而不是责备自己或感到失望沮丧,所以C选项“不完美可以是一种礼物”符合本文标题。故选 C。