分享坏消息时,我们为什么不喜欢用“I”?
分享坏消息时,我们为什么不喜欢用“I”?

                                                                                          

Researchers have found that when people have been through a negative experience, they tend to use the word “you” rather than “I” when talking about it.The study, by researchers based at the University of Michigan, conducted nine experiments with nearly 2,500 people to understand the meaning behind the use of the word “you” in the context of speaking about and sharing insight on their own experiences.
“It's something we all do as a way to explain how things work and to find meaning in our lives,” said Ariana Orvell, a researcher in the Department of Psychology.“When people use ‘you’ to make meaning from negative experiences, it allows them to normalize(使正常化) the experience and reflect on it from a distance,” she said.
For example, when people use the sentence “You win some, you lose some”, it indicates that a person has failed in a situation, but by using the word “you”, they're expressing that the experience they went through could happen to anyone, said Ms Orvell. “Or saying that ‘When you are angry, you say and do things that you will most likely regret might actually explain a personal situation, but the individual attempts to make it something many people relate to,” Ms Orvell said.
In one of the experiments, the researchers asked participants to write about a personal experience.They had to write something about a negative event. They used the word “you” many times. The research also found that using the word “you” led people to view the event as being more distant. “We suspect that it's the ability to move beyond your own perspective to express shared, universal experiences that allows individuals to get broader meanings from personal events,” Orvell said.

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1.What is the aim of researchers conducting nine experiments?

A To study in the University of Michigan.

B To know the reason why people use “you”.

C To let readers share their personal insight.

D To learn the real meaning in our lives.

解析:选B。细节理解题。根据第一段最后一句的to understand the meaning behind the use of the word “you” in the context of speaking about and sharing insight on their own experiences可以得知研究者通过研究要理解说话者为什么会喜欢用“you”。故选B。

2.Why do people like to use “you” when talking about a negative experience?

A They do not really care about what they are speaking about.

B They would like others to have the same experience.

C They know the negative experience can make them strong.

D They want to make others think their experience is natural.

解析:选D。推理判断题。根据第二段最后一句的it allows them to normalize(使正常化) the experience and reflect on it from a distance可以得知,当人们谈论不好的事情时,用“you”可以让人们感觉到那些人的不好的遭遇是很正常的。故选D。

3.What would people say if they didn’t succeed as expected?

A When angry, you say and do things.

B You win some, you lose some.

C We can find meaning in our lives.

D It's something we all do.

解析:选B。细节理解题。根据第三段第一句的For example, when people use the sentence “You win some, you lose some”, it indicates that a person has failed in a situation可以得知,当自己失败的时候,人们会说You win some, you lose some。故选B。

4.How can people get broader meaning from their own events?

A Expressing experiences in another perspective.

B Getting the ability to explain the situation.

C Forming a very strange experience.

D Going through what could happen to anyone.

解析:选A。推理判断题。根据最后一段最后一句的We suspect that it's the ability to move beyond your own perspective to express shared, universal experiences that allows individuals to get broader meanings from personal events” 可以得知,抛开自己的观点(即站在另一种角度)来表达普遍的经历能让人从个人的事件中得到更广泛的理解。故选A。